Prarabbh karma is the cause for this life and based on these prarabdh karmas everything in our life gets pre-destined including the favorable and unfavorable situations, strained relationship, riches and losses, accidents and death. Prarabdh means that which has commenced and prarabdh karma means those karmas (deeds) which have started giving their results. Prarabdh karmas may undergo modifications based on the new karmas we perform in this birth. This is how we build our fate. Your fate is in your hands; build it according to what you want in your life.- Sri. Sadguru Rameshji Ji
I earlier used to get annoyed with every situation of my life and used to get annoyed with everybody, thinking that they are there to trouble me. I never knew that it is my own prarabdh karma which is creating all these scenes in my life, only to give back the result of my deeds in the past birth. Since this knowledge has dawned on me I have become more peaceful and non-reactive. Every situation which appears non-congenial to me also does not bother me these days. Slowly I find lot of good things started happening in my life. More than anything else I have stopped blaming anybody for my problems and that helped me find newer ways to look at life.
THE JOY OF SEEING OTHERS JOY IS A BIGGER JOY THAN OUR OWN JOY